10 Dating Tips For Men That Work!
Wednesday, 20 Jan 2010
Here’s a list of rules you fellas should follow so you can get women and keep them. And, I don’t mean keeping a woman who will nag you and ask you to do shit for them. I mean you’ll keep women who’ll do your begging. Believe me, it works. It’s hard to do, but it works!
- Remain a mystery.
Don’t give out too much info too soon. Women love a mystery. It keeps them interested. There’s a lot more to life than a woman. Sure, we all have needs, and it’s nice to feel wanted and needed, but if you show a woman that you “need” her, she’ll walk all over you, man. I promise. Before you know it, you’ll be telling your friends you have to ask your woman if you can go…to anything! - Don’t invest all your emotions in one woman.
If you give everything you have to a woman, investing too much, you’ll never be able to walk away. Before you know it, she’ll be cheating on you and YOU’LL be the one saying you were sorry for neglecting whatever it is that she blames on you for HER cheating. It happnes far too often. - Don’t sweat your looks too much.
Both men and women age and lose their looks. Bring more to the table than an expensive wardrobe, manicured nails, and a designer wardrobe. This goes for men AND women. When you’re 60, she’ll be much more attracted to your sense of humor and knowledge of the word rather than your grey-haired, wrinkled balls. - Don’t come off as desperate.
The guys who stalk women, tell them how beautiful they are, and beg for them to come home with them end up sleeping alone every night. EVERY night. You don’t need her, you really don’t, and she needs to be aware of that fact. - Don’t call as soon as you get home.
Don’t even call tomorrow. If you got her phone number, great! Wait a little while. Maybe a few days or a week. Again, you don’t want to appear desperate. When you do call, keep it business. - Don’t sit on the phone for an hour hearing her ramble on about whatever it is girls think is important.
Once you let her ramble on that one time, she’ll be giving you shit for the rest of the relationship anytime you seem disinterested in whatever she’s talking about. - Don’t leave a message if you get her voicemail.
Simply try to call her again. But, whatever you do, please don’t call her immediately after you ot her voicemail. That move will turn her off because you’ll seem super creepy. - Call her tomorrow.
If you don’t get her to answer tomorrow, stop calling. Let her call or forget it. If she doesn’t call, you’re still not completely out of opportunities. The next time she sees you out, you’ll be the mysterious guy who didn’t sweat her like every other guy. After a few drinks, you’ll probably be the hottest guy in the city. - On a first date, don’t make it a long one.
Don’t get locked into a 2 hour movie followed by dinner and drinks. Instead, ask her to do some kind of activity like pool, bowling, etc. That will keep the pressure down and establish a date time limit. - If you feel like buying jewelry, buy it for yourself.
If you just started dating a girl and you think it’s a good idea to surprise her with a gift, like jewelry, don’t. You’ll scare any decent woman off and attract any possible gold diggers. I don’t even recommend buying her drinks or dinner or ANYTHING in the beginning. If she wants to spend time with you, she can pay her own way. Save the paying for her stuff when she has your last name and shares a joint bank account with you.
