4 Mistakes Women Make With Men
Thursday, 25 Jun 2009
Ladies, these mistakes, and how to avoid them, are just for you. After reading this dating article, you’ll have the knowledge that will lead to some great dates. If you’ve made these mistakes in the past, this article will help you to avoid them in the future.
- You just started talking to a guy but already you’re sharing your feelings. It’s no secret, men love their freedom. When you tell a guy you love him, after only a short time dating, you could be flipping a switch in his brain that warns him you might be emotionally defendant, overwhelming, and clingy. That’s certainly a recipe of feelings that will lead to him being standoffish and more distant in the very near future. If you two have just met, you haven’t had to time to even get to know each other much less pursue anything more serious than dating and enjoying each others company. Falling in love is not something you force. When you know it, you’ll also know if he knows it.
- Too much, too far, too soon. It’s only natural to start to wonder how much a guy likes you, if he wants to get serious, are you only a fling? Keep this in mind, if you start to bring up marriage, a family, or even just moving in together, and you’ve only been dating 6 months, you could ruin your chances at taking your relationship to the next level. If you really like and/or love him, just keep being the best girlfriend you can be and you’ll see him transform from a great new boyfriend to a man who’s going to be bringing up all the next steps on his own. Men need time.
- You’re always there for him. This is a big mistake. If you’re canceling plans with your friends and always waiting for your man to call, you’re going to put your jeopardize your confidence, your friendships, and you’re independence. Always being available for your man could also lead to you creating unreal expectations of your boyfriend which could lead to him feeling pressured by you. You don’t want to pressure a man you really like. It’s not healthy to isolate yourself in a relationship. You’re going to need your friends, your family, and your ability to entertain yourself for the rest of your life. Don’t blow it by being the needy, “always there” girlfriend.
- You’re not being yourself anymore. You were you in the beginning, and if you’re still together, that woman he met in the beginning is who he’s falling for. Don’t change because you think you know what your man wants you to be.
Now that you have the information you need to avoid dating mistakes with men, create a profile and find a guy to practice your new moves on.
