How to Turn a Friend into a Girlfriend.
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You’ve finally met her, the girl you’ve been dreaming of for so long. She makes your heart skip a beat, and you intend to marry her and make babies with her. The perfect woman with the perfect life. She’s your dream come true. Oh, but wait. There’s a catch. You’re not the man of her dreams. You’re her male BFF. Yep. The woman you desire, you love, you want to spend forever with has you locked in the friend zone. Sure, she likes you. She spends a little time with you here and there. You are a last minute fill-in to weddings and other events and gatherings. But, you’re also introduced as “My friend (insert your name here).” You’ve had drinks with her before, but nothing ever happens. Those hidden feelings you hope will get purged with alcohol never come out of her mouth. You also get to approve every new guy she likes and get to hear about every random guy she sleeps with.
Once, when you were really drunk, you went for it. You blurted out that you’re in love with her. She laughed it off and said you’re funny. You died inside.
Many of us guys out there feel your pain, man. Many men, men just like you who are stuck in the friend zone want to know how to get out of the friend zone with the woman of their dreams.
You want to know how to charm that girl. You fantasize about her and you want her to think of you that way. You want to know how to make her realize you could be “the one” and then she falls head over heels for you. You want her to start wondering what it would be like to sleep with you and why she hasn’t thought about this, or acted on this, sooner. Don’t stop reading, but there really is no ONE plan you can execute to get yourself out of the friend zone. Nope, there’s no proven technique to get her wanting you to sleep over after you bail her out of a tight, drunken jam yet again instead of just saying thanks and sorry for puking in your car. Just like women are complicated, getting out of the friend zone is equally as complicated. You’re going to have to finesse your way through hundreds of little steps to get her to realize you’ve been there all along and deserve a shot. Your personality is what’s going to get her thinking about you in a romantic way. Obviously you have something going for you since she’s been your friend for so long. (This is, unless you’ve made yourself the friend who she uses and knows she can use to buy her things and do things for her. If that’s you, you need to stop reading this because she will NEVER be involved with you, romantically at least.)
Yes, it’s all about your personality. Your personality will make her stay friends with you, end up hating you, or one day wanting you as her mate. Never forget, your dream girl is no dummy (right?). She always talks about wanting a man who has it all. Don’t ever go thinking if you buy her stuff, or do stuff for her, or change your style, that any of that will secure your chance at a life with her. You also will never secure her as your woman by reading some lame “trick” on the internet, which is maybe what you were looking for when you landed here.
Fortunately, she may fall for many little well-played “tricks” that you’ve executed with precision and have soldered to your personality. You need to make yourself the guy who obviously has it all, and that has nothing to do with money or generosity. I can’t stress it enough, you can’t buy a woman’s love. You can buy her companionship, but not her love. Now you’re ready to learn a few things that these guys who “have it all” do, that you can do, which will help you on your quest to snatch this woman off the market.
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