How to Turn a Friend into a Girlfriend.
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Consider most of these things labeled as “fun”. You want to make her associate fun with you. What, you don’t have any idea what fun is? Well, what is it you try to think of when planning a date? You try to think of something to do that’s fun, right? Oh, you don’t? You usually plan dates that become stressful, one-on-one face-offs where you’re forced into conversation and “getting to know each other”? Well, that’s not fun. You need to show her fun. You need to come up with some interesting ways to create that extra arousal by using your imagination. Is there an amusement park near you? A date at a carnival or amusement park is an excellent, FUN date. An amusement park occupies the top of my list for a date. Amusement parks will increase her arousal for you much more than any night out for dinner and drinks. Think about the rush she’ll get from the roller coasters and other intense rides. That intensity, that rush, will pay off big for you.
Maybe you don’t have an amusement park around you and she’s already brought up going to have dinner at that new place downtown. Well, instead of dinner and a movie, why not go to dinner, have a glass of wine or two, then go dancing! Most women love to dance. If you can be one of the rare men who know how to dance and aren’t afraid to go dance, you’re putting yourself in an elite class as well as bringing her to an activity that will be very, very arousing.
You really never want to take someone you like and are trying to get to like you on a date to the movies. All that movie is going to do is get her mind off of you for 2 hours. If you skip the movies and take her dancing, you’re going to be involves yourself in an activity that’s both fun AND arousing. If you want to keep the process of deciding what to do together simple, just consider almost any physical activity you can do together as an opportunity to get her aroused which will lead to her enhanced physiological response towards you. Activities like dancing, bike riding, rock climbing, hiking and even an visiting an amusement parks are all activities that will fuel the little fire of “like” she already has for you.
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